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“Be honest — do you think men’s emotional labor in relationships gets overlooked?” We often hear about women doing the “invisible work” of caring, listening, and keeping the emotional side of a relationship together. But what about men? Do they also carry emotional weight that just doesn’t get recognized? 💬 Share your take in the comments: In your relationships (past or present), who usually ends up doing more of the “emotional support” work? Do you think it should be more balanced?

Sep 25, 2025
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nick:
the amount of overweight delusional females ignoring factual numbers from a active survey. this is why men CHOOSE to STAY single. they offer nothing but their body's that are blowouts
Xuli:
It depends imo. Ideally everyone in the relationship are doing self care while also leaning on each other. If there is a balance both take on responsibilities that are reasonable. So long as it works for both of you and your needs are met the invisible work should be visible atp and recognized ✨🦋
Draydre4u:
Dealing with a woman's emotions while in a relationship with her can be overbearing but it can also be a great responsibility to know that she cares about you enough to trust you with her feelings and knows that you won't betray them or try to use them to take advantage of her.we men up and lift her
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They say the best way to get over someone is to get under someone... but does it actually work? Share your experience and feeling below!

Aug 05, 2025
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Omasajuwa:
Hi
Evan:
I say no if you do that to numb yourself you more than likely will find yourself in something toxic either in the person you just got under or the next relationship because you haven't figured out how to not put yourself in that same situation that ended the relationship and work on yourself.
EasyG100:
I've never tried it before because heart ache and physical gratification have absolutely nothing to do with one another.
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Do you think romantic gestures and intentional moments are important in a relationship? Like surprise date nights, anniversary gifts, matching outfits, celebrating even the smallest wins, etc. Is that what keeps the spark alive? Vote⬇️ and share your thoughts in the comments!

Jul 22, 2025
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  • It’s nice but not a must
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Isabella:
Available for meetup wanna link text me on my Tele_gram;@Isabella_2275
Stellagetagroove:
Are you okay with just giving a woman oral sex?
Anazii DaKyng:
I picked the wrong one. I meant to say 100% yes
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What matters MOST in a long-distance relationship? Drop your letter in the comments — and tell us why! 💬 Let’s hear from the LDR pros.💗

Jul 15, 2025
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  • Communication
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  • Consistent visits
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Isabella:
Available for meetup wanna link text me on my Tele_gram;@Isabella_2275
black black2:
Communication gains trust and is more important than visiting. The hardest thing to do is maintain what has been given.
J.:
How about sexual needs?
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