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While most of us are still looking for an answer to why we were ghosted by someone, according to our recent poll, it seems like over 60% of people have been the "ghost" even when they have been ghosted themselves before.😅Which makes one wonder maybe the answer was in us all along.👀Take a poll below to let us know why you would ghost someone. Sound off in the comments if you have different takes on ghosting.👇

Dec 06, 2021
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  • I just wasn't interested
    397
  • I simply forgot to respond
    181
  • I felt uncomfortable with the interaction
    398
  • I didn't know how to respond
    245
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Javeonnah:
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Wanderlust Larry:
At least I know the 100000 Nigerian scammers on here will never ghost me.
1060WestAddison:
@Irene - Can you please do more to stop fake profiles? I am considering leaving the app because of them. I think many of us would thank you!!
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Ghosting, also known as simmering or icing, is a colloquial term which describes the practice of ending all communication and contact with another person without any apparent warning or justification and subsequently ignoring any attempts to reach out or communication made by said person.👻Have you ever been ghosted or even ghosted someone else?👀What happened and why did you do it? Take a poll below and tell us what you think in the comments!👇

Nov 22, 2021
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  • I've been the ghosted and the ghoster
    766
  • I've been ghosted, but I've never ghosted others
    452
  • I've never been ghosted, but I've ghosted others
    62
  • I've never been ghosted or ghosted anyone
    66
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Tyrone:
Every girl I ever talked to ghost me ..I just want one girl to like me
Noah Walker:
Since 668 out of over 1,000 members on here say they’ve been ghosted and have been the ghoster, maybe the right tact is to view it as something to work on rather than getting off our high horses too much .
Michael13:
I've been ghosted so many times by many different people. It is so rude, spineless and cowardly. I'd rather just be told that the person is busy or no longer interested than being ghosted.
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Do I smell love in the air? Or is it because we are in the holiday season? Either way, happy Thanksgiving!🎉 Some might say holidays are all about family and friends, but trust me, with all these good vibes around, this is a time for romance too! How are you spending your Thanksgiving? Do you have any holi-date going on? Any festive fling?👀 Let us know below and pass on the good vibes!🥰

Nov 26, 2021
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  • I'm spending it with my family
    511
  • I'm spending it with my holi-date
    27
  • I'll be with my family & my date
    42
  • On my own & looking for my holi-date
    240
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Izzy:
Who wanna be my holi-date?
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Martynas:
Absolute BS, Europeans we don’t celebrate this stuff…
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Gaslighting is a form of manipulation commonly seen in abusive relationships.👀It is a form of emotional abuse where the abuser bullies the victim about their judgment or perception of reality, which leads them to doubt their credibility.😟Have you ever been a victim of gaslighting? What did you do? Take a poll below and share your experiences in the comments!👇

Nov 19, 2021
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  • Yes, I noticed the red flags immediately
    380
  • Yes, but I didn't realized it then
    630
  • No, I don't think I have
    175
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mark:
I constantly get verbaly abused from morning till night
Alvin Berry:
Happy Sunday Blessings How Are U Doing? My Name Is Alvin 59 From L.A.
FluffyNinja311:
As a child I suffered though what I said was invalid. Then I got super defensive and protective of myself then I was called crazy. Gaslighting is a trigger for me that will set me off real quick. I have a shit temper because I have had to defend myself since childhood. 😊❤️
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