During an argument what behavior from your partner hurts you the most? Arguments are inevitable in relationships, but certain behaviors can cut deeper than others. Which of these hurts you the worst? Leave your comments!
Assess this--even if they don't live @home:
Is this a pit stop OR final destination? Are they comfy--or want better?
Is this their character, or a temporary situation? Divorce, inflation, abuse, nature, etc, can take away a home real quick. Are they grinding to ELEVATE or buying more sneakers? 🤷💯
This is just a litmus test for character. Big fan of adulting. Maturity too. That's what we're "judging" (I prefer "assessing").
Are they @ home b/c they're 💓 caretakers? In a rut BUT fighting to rebound? Saving for a house? Doing school to elevate?
Or lazy/freeloading/immature/unmotivated? 💯
Mary Lelia
Don't judge the situation until you know the facts. 😂
Optimisticgeek
Assess this--even if they don't live @home: Is this a pit stop OR final destination? Are they comfy--or want better? Is this their character, or a temporary situation? Divorce, inflation, abuse, nature, etc, can take away a home real quick. Are they grinding to ELEVATE or buying more sneakers? 🤷💯
Optimisticgeek
This is just a litmus test for character. Big fan of adulting. Maturity too. That's what we're "judging" (I prefer "assessing"). Are they @ home b/c they're 💓 caretakers? In a rut BUT fighting to rebound? Saving for a house? Doing school to elevate? Or lazy/freeloading/immature/unmotivated? 💯