Do you maintain eye contact when dating to someone for a better connection?
Some people believe strong eye contact is essential for creating connection and attraction, while others naturally avoid it due to shyness, introversion, or discomfort.
💬 Dating Chat Starters — What’s Your Go-To Move?
Starting a convo online can feel awkward 😅 Some people play it cool, some go full flirty, and some just drop a meme and hope for the best.
So tell us: what kind of opening line actually works for you? 💘
Pick your vibe:
Which of these is the BEST metaphor for a romantic relationship?
Love is a mystery, a feeling, an action... but if you had to compare it to something else, what would it be? Is it a necessity, a comfort, or an adventure?
Assess this--even if they don't live @home:
Is this a pit stop OR final destination? Are they comfy--or want better?
Is this their character, or a temporary situation? Divorce, inflation, abuse, nature, etc, can take away a home real quick. Are they grinding to ELEVATE or buying more sneakers? 🤷💯
This is just a litmus test for character. Big fan of adulting. Maturity too. That's what we're "judging" (I prefer "assessing").
Are they @ home b/c they're 💓 caretakers? In a rut BUT fighting to rebound? Saving for a house? Doing school to elevate?
Or lazy/freeloading/immature/unmotivated? 💯
Mary Lelia
Don't judge the situation until you know the facts. 😂
Optimisticgeek
Assess this--even if they don't live @home: Is this a pit stop OR final destination? Are they comfy--or want better? Is this their character, or a temporary situation? Divorce, inflation, abuse, nature, etc, can take away a home real quick. Are they grinding to ELEVATE or buying more sneakers? 🤷💯
Optimisticgeek
This is just a litmus test for character. Big fan of adulting. Maturity too. That's what we're "judging" (I prefer "assessing"). Are they @ home b/c they're 💓 caretakers? In a rut BUT fighting to rebound? Saving for a house? Doing school to elevate? Or lazy/freeloading/immature/unmotivated? 💯