Do you think romantic gestures and intentional moments are important in a relationship? Like surprise date nights, anniversary gifts, matching outfits, celebrating even the smallest wins, etc. Is that what keeps the spark alive? Vote⬇️ and share your thoughts in the comments!
Assess this--even if they don't live @home:
Is this a pit stop OR final destination? Are they comfy--or want better?
Is this their character, or a temporary situation? Divorce, inflation, abuse, nature, etc, can take away a home real quick. Are they grinding to ELEVATE or buying more sneakers? 🤷💯
This is just a litmus test for character. Big fan of adulting. Maturity too. That's what we're "judging" (I prefer "assessing").
Are they @ home b/c they're 💓 caretakers? In a rut BUT fighting to rebound? Saving for a house? Doing school to elevate?
Or lazy/freeloading/immature/unmotivated? 💯
Mary Lelia
Don't judge the situation until you know the facts. 😂
Optimisticgeek
Assess this--even if they don't live @home: Is this a pit stop OR final destination? Are they comfy--or want better? Is this their character, or a temporary situation? Divorce, inflation, abuse, nature, etc, can take away a home real quick. Are they grinding to ELEVATE or buying more sneakers? 🤷💯
Optimisticgeek
This is just a litmus test for character. Big fan of adulting. Maturity too. That's what we're "judging" (I prefer "assessing"). Are they @ home b/c they're 💓 caretakers? In a rut BUT fighting to rebound? Saving for a house? Doing school to elevate? Or lazy/freeloading/immature/unmotivated? 💯