User contribution: I am a widow and always wonder if it's a big deal with prospective dates or not. Does it make a difference in your decision-making if someone is a widow/widower?—Please vote and your opinion is essential!🙋‍♂️

Nothing would change its not her or his fault that ex partner was died

I'm also a widow

Everyone keeps saying "unless they are over it". You never get over losing your soul mate to death. You do learn to live with it, you learn to accept that life moves on with or without them. Using the term "getting over it" is just, well something that people who never felt that kind of pain say.