Can someone grow on you romantically — or is the spark✨ either there or not?

For me, someone can definitely grow on me. The spark isn’t always instant — sometimes it builds as I get to know someone and feel that deeper connection

I think that in some cases, it does grow slowly, and I think that in all cases you should let it grow slowly, but sometimes it won’t grow at all, because in some cases the spark is like a seed. Without it, no matter how much watering you do, you won’t grow a plant, you’ll just have wet soil.

Studies have shown that men fall in love two times faster than women. And typically men fall in love on average one month sooner than women fall in love.