User contribution: In the quest for love, do we seek someone just like us or someone completely different? 🤔Similarity brings comfort and understanding, while complementarity sparks excitement and growth. Which path leads to the happiest relationships? Let's discuss! 📢

I feel like when dating someone like ourselves it give too much of a self reflexion in a more negative way. Your able to see your corks clearly.

I think it’s important to be similar in values, religion, politics, etc… the important stuff. But I think complimentary is better in every other area.

I think what matters is that the person at the core fits my personality but I also want someone who kinda fills in the gaps of the things I could work on as a person as well. It's nice to relate and to give the other person what they could need as well.