User contribution: In the quest for love, do we seek someone just like us or someone completely different? 🤔Similarity brings comfort and understanding, while complementarity sparks excitement and growth. Which path leads to the happiest relationships? Let's discuss! 📢

I feel like when dating someone like ourselves it give too much of a self reflexion in a more negative way. Your able to see your corks clearly.

I think what matters is that the person at the core fits my personality but I also want someone who kinda fills in the gaps of the things I could work on as a person as well. It's nice to relate and to give the other person what they could need as well.

I think it absolutely can be both, it is nice to have similarities. Things you can enjoy together, but it is also nice to have things that you can introduce one another to...or do independently..