Extra-sized women are definitely great to love and winning their love with. If you are pursuing one and you would like to make her yours, there are some tactics that can help you date with BBW and keep a healthy relationship:
1) Be All Ears
A girl always wants to have her guy listening to her deeply to every word that she says. She wants to see you listening every now and then and by being a keen listener for her, rest assured that you would find her having equal interest to you.
2) Compliment Her
She deserves compliments, right? At the back of being plus sized, a BBW is definitely someone with oozing attractiveness. She can compete with those sexy girls out there and when her loveliness captivates your eyes, make her know and feel that you appreciate her presence in your life. Let her know that you love even the smallest thing about her. Compliments will help you find your way to her heart.
3) Throw a Pep Rally
You can think of cheerleading as an effective way of getting her attention and interest. A BBW might be in low self-esteem because she is too conscious of her size but when you throw a pep rally for her, you will make her feel that you are always there for her and that you are helping her to build self-confidence and trust in her own beauty.
4) Remember that Chivalry Is Not Dead
A lady will still be captivated by a chivalry. Even a BBW dreams of meeting her knight and shining armor. Do things like supporting her girly interests, and send her flowers, and letting her have the last bite of your favorite food. These things will help you a lot in making her fall in love with you.
5) Focus All Eyes on Her
When you talk to her, maintain an eye to eye contact to make her see that you are really interested in her.
6) Leave a Message
At the end of the day, leave her a special message or even a sentence that will make her thinking of you tonight.
7) Growing Love
If you feel that she’s starting to fall for you, be there to catch her falling. Let the love grow.
8) Be Mr. Clean
Maintain cleanliness. Be properly groomed at all times.
9) Play the Music Man
Play manly music you know she will love too.
10) Clown Around
Whenever you spend time with her, make her laugh by throwing jokes.
11) Drop It Like it’s Hot
When she comes along, make her feel like she is the only one you see. Make each moment like a fairytale for her.
12) Keep it All in the Family
You also need to win the favor of her family. Be good at them.
13) Take the Consultative Approach
Be a good adviser and a motivator for her. Help her raise herself.
14) Zip It
Choose the best words to say to her. When you think it’s nonsense to say, then zip it.
15) Get Lost
Make her miss you. Be mysterious at some point.
16) Slow It Down
Just go with the flow and take each step at a time.
17) Timing is Everything
Learn to find out the perfect timing to do anything and to say anything.
18) Remember that Family Matters
Show her that you are family-oriented and that you are a responsible one to make her see you as a husband material.
19) Surprise!
Just sometimes, try to surprise her. She will love it.
20) Soup for the Soul
You can read books like Chicken Soup for the Soul wherein you can get more tips about dating and building a happy relationship with a BBW.
Use these tips today and see how they magically work.
